
linnlyMar 23, 2025, 2:37 AM
baseline
Grief is like the ocean
Some days
You can walk along the shore and the ocean is gently lapping at your feet.
Itās there, itās always there.
You know itās there, but itās manageable
And some days
Itās a fucking tsunami
Destroying everything
Both are perfectly valid examples of the never ending journey of child loss grief
Some days your smile will meet your eyes once more
And some days you just grab on to anything that can support the heaviness and ride that shit out
@suungod

andriodMar 23, 2025, 5:37 AM
tired
Sorry you have been so forthcoming about your grief and always helping others here. Big hugs grief is real!

linnlyMar 23, 2025, 8:10 AM
baseline
@andriod grief is love⦠it just hurts a little moreā¦
The moment my daughterās heart stopped beating was the moment I was changed irrevocably.
I donāt know how to be anything close to the girl I was before she left me.
So I learned to love this version of me, I just give myself a little more grace and gentleness in the rough daysā¦
And as the support person for those who are new to the journey⦠I give them what I didnāt get

andriodMar 23, 2025, 12:21 PM
tired
@linnly š¢šā¤ļøbless you Iām sorry

mondomonJul 28, 2025, 8:21 PM
baseline
@linnly I know you posted this months ago, but I just saw it in the gems section and it is exactly what I needed to read today to help with my grief. I hope yours is fading, and that you know that sharing your vulnerable state has helped others. Peace š
